How it works

The mechanics are calm by design. A few answers help us introduce you with more care, then conversation does the work.

  1. Write your letterStart with words that sound like you, not a profile built to perform.
  2. Answer a few thoughtful questionsA few answers help us introduce you with more care.
  3. Receive today's lettersA smaller set of people, with more context before judgement.
  4. Begin a letterIf there is something worth asking, you write properly.
  5. Talk for 15 minutesReal conversation comes before the photo reveal.
  6. Photos unlock togetherNo one sees more than the other person is ready to share.